Enjoy every day life, many of us advice others. But do you think you really enjoy your everyday life. Does it seem you need to change some habit? Wait, I’m not going to tell you to change your habit here. You are not alone in the today’s worlds, who are not able to enjoying their life everyday due to some circumstance.
Some days before I have met some of my old friends, where a common subject of discussion was about our own daily life.
Truly speaking where common words or conclusion came out like
“I am fade up with this boring life”
“We are only doing responsibility on our job and our family what I am doing for me?”
I think you are also in same platform. But believe me later on, I thought deeply on the problem and found some gap among me too in the way I am handling my everyday life.
So don’t worry friends,give me just 5 minutes of time , I will tell you 10 very simple steps to enjoy everyday life.
It will help you out:
- Maintain enthusiasm towards life
- Boosting you to get more enjoyment in everyday life
- Bring more happiness
“ No one lives forever.Take your time and enjoy your life as long as you can”
1. Make time for what you love most to do:
As you have seen some of my friends even me or even you also over burden on only on responsibilities on others. So I must say you it’s important to take care of our responsibilities, parallel to that we should also try to balance the need to do activities with a few things we really want to do.
If you never think and make the time to do things you love most and excited about, then you ruin your daily life .If you only attend to your obligations, it could become difficult to find any feelings of enjoyment in day-to-day life. So start to make time ever day for the things you really enjoy to do.
“ Each day is a little lifetime,so just enjoy every moment of life”
2. Eliminate unnecessary commitments:
Do you ever think what value added with your daily life when you do commitments? Is it really enhancing your life or just adding some more stress? If it doesn’t add any spice in your daily life to enjoy fullest then straightway you should drop it. But I know sometime it’s really difficult for you so try to reduce things that just consume time and energy with no real payoff. Take some things simply aren’t negotiable, but other so-called obligation aren’t really necessary.
“Life is like art. You have to work hard to keep it simple and still have meaning”
3. Adopt simplicity:
I will recommend you to adopt simplicity in life. You can take a help from here.
You may notice that for some time you seem to accumulate physical mental and emotional clutter. So please try to end up rushing one demanding situation to another where no real feeling of enjoyment and happiness. To quite your minds and restore a sense of order to your daily life you need to value on simplicity. Remember simple things are the less distracted for your mind.
4. Enjoy little things
During my college life we used to gather at a tea shop at evening. The real thing was we had not so much pocket-money from home but what we had that is “ a cup of tea with lot of gossips – happiness and enjoyment” . Literally we kick out all stress, tension of examination and start a fresh evening in hostel again after this break.
Why I am telling you the story? You also in same platform, so find the little things that give a lot of enjoyment in daily life. If you never take the time to actually be in the moment then I can say that we are really living our daily life? Even the smallest activities can be enjoyable if you stay concentrate on the experience. Isn’t it?
“Enjoy the little things in life, because one day you will look back , and realize they were the big things”
The next time you eat a piece of fruit or enjoy a cup of coffee simply enjoy it. As per my knowledge our sense of smell and taste are connected to our brains pleasure enter. So when you savor what goes into your stomach you tend to eat less and enjoy it more.
5. Enjoy daily life with generosity:
Your act of kindness is an act of generosity. Smile at strangers, hold the door open for the other person behind you, listen while someone else is talking and being respectful etc. These all simple acts are not costly but give you an inner peace which will keep always and enjoyable moment for you.
“It is not happy people who are thankful.It is thankful people who are happy”
Do you know your passion of life? If not then you must check once here.
6. Start a daily review on gratitude:
This is the simplest and most powerful way to enjoy every day life. If you take a moment every day to check your blessing, you will notice more and more things to be grateful for. Gratitude is actually the antidote for selfishness. It is easy to get caught up in selfish pursuits and forget how much there is to be grateful for. Once you start review and make the list take and put up one thing among them into action in your life, this should be it.
“It’s not an issue of Wants vs. Needs.It’s an issue of Wants vs. Priorities.”
7. Chose your priority wisely:
If you reevaluate your priorities on regular basis then you feel that life is an ever exchange experience. Examine your priorities and check what is the most important to you and why. So give your top priorities in first place otherwise they will get swallowed up by everything else.
You must agree with me that this is your life and you need to set your own priorities . So please choose wisely your priorities to enjoy every day life.
Try to find your life purpose here.
8. Learn let go technique:
Let consider you have missed out a very important work today , if you keep your mind obsessing over that then you will not able to relax. And obviously you know that when it comes to relaxation the body follows the mind.
“ Letting go gives us freedom , and freedom is the only condition for happiness”
So you can understood that your body can only experience relaxation if your mind has let go of anything and everything that causes your stress ,worry and anxiety. Lets start enjoy your every day life by let it go technique.
“When you focus on what you want , everything else falls away.”
9. Keep focus on what matters:
Lets take an example: Someone who whose live hood comes from political background , spending time in politics might represent productivity. However for you it might just be a distraction from what really matter when you spend more than 5-10 minuets of your every day life for watching political news in TV.
So you need to differentiate between the matter which gives productivity and busy work . You must analyze your own situation and focus your time accordingly.
10. Bring some spice in your daily routine:
Take a different path , try something new. It can be something simple like start blogging, learn to play guitar or any other musical instrument.
“Every day we should hear at least one little song, read one good poem, see one exquisite picture, and if possible speak a few sensible words”
Believe me now , it is an excellent time to do something you have always wanted to do, but have never gotten around to because today may never come. Now start walking instead of watching television after dinner. Or make a plan for enjoy the next weekend.
“ And in the end , it’s not the years in your life that count.It’s the life in your years”- Abraham Lincoln.
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